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i had no idea how much i needed an angry Brit screamin at traffic

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I CAN’T BREATHE

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His Mother Must Be Proud.

tindersfinestbachelors:

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Some of you may have come across the name Julien Blanc in the past few days. For those who haven’t, Julien Blanc (also goes by the name RSD Julien) is a pick up artist who works for the company Real Social Dynamics. 

I first encountered Julien over the summer when we matched on Tinder.

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(Credit: tinder)

This was a part of our conversation:

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(link to the full convo bellow)

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You can see our entire interaction here: http://tindersfinestbachelors.tumblr.com/post/94731409650/just-discovered-that-julien-is-julien-blanc

By the end of the conversation I came to two conclusions:
1. Julien is a creep with LOTS of issues.
2. Julien is a man (I use the term ‘man’ lightly) who REALLY hates women.

A few weeks go by and my roommate receives the same opening message on OkCupid! Several weeks after that, a friend of mine comes across a screen grab of the exact same message posted on Facebook, but in Hebrew!

It was pretty clear that there was a site where “men” were getting these pick-up lines, so I decided, as any human with internet access would, to google Julien’s ridiculous message. Let’s just say I was not prepared for what I found. 

That’s when I discovered his full name, Julien Blanc, and the RSD community. 

The more time I spent researching Julien, the more angry and upset I became. Here’s a quick look at the conversations Julien has with girls on Tinder. Taken directly from his Facebook page where he flaunts his ability to pick up women:

Here he is lying about the death of his Father:

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(Credit: RSD Julien’s FB Page)

Exactly. Why would someone lie about that!?

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Here you can see how he uses a fake rape story to gain women’s sympathy:

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(Credit: RSD Julien’s FB Page)

*PUKE*

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This is clearly all one big joke to Julien. He can behave this way because he simply doesn’t see women as human beings. 

Some of you must have come across the Buzzfeed article published about Julien this week (Written by Mark Di Stefano). if you haven’t - it’s a must read.

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Aside from harassing and violating women, we learn that Blanc is also a racist:

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(Credit: Buzzfeed)

I can go on for days and days about how horrible Julien’s behaviour is, but instead, I thought I’d let his work speak for itself. Here are some tweets that I gathered from Julien’s twitter feed: (@RSDJulien)

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Still reading?

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#NotFunny #RapeCulture 

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#ThatsWhatRapistsSay

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What about now? Still reading? Upset? Furious? Unfortunately, there’s more.

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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WTFFFFFF

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CANT. EVEN.

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EVERY.SINGLE.FUCKING.TIME.

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I think It’d be easier to castrate you. 

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… and that’s Julien Blanc for you. 

Julien’s minions will claim that he’s OBVIOUSLY kidding! OBVIOUSLY!

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I think any sane person will think otherwise.

After reading Julien’s tweets, you’ve obviously asking yourself, “what can I do to shut this fucker down?”

Well, you can join the #takedownjulienblanc movement, started by Jennifer Li (@JennLi123and help keep Julien out of your hometown. 

So far, Julien and his RSD minions have been banned from 5 different hotels, all thanks to the uproar caused by the hashtag. The website Event Brite has also cut its ties to Julien Blanc and Real Social Dynamics. 

I have one last thing to say to Julien. From me, and from women everywhere.

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You want to say Hi to the cute girl on the subway. How will she react? Fortunately, I can tell you with some certainty, because she’s already sending messages to you. Looking out the window, reading a book, working on a computer, arms folded across chest, body away from you = do not disturb. So, y’know, don’t disturb her. Really. Even to say that you like her hair, shoes, or book. A compliment is not always a reason for women to smile and say thank you. You are a threat, remember? You are Schrödinger’s Rapist. Don’t assume that whatever you have to say will win her over with charm or flattery. Believe what she’s signaling, and back off.

If you speak, and she responds in a monosyllabic way without looking at you, she’s saying, “I don’t want to be rude, but please leave me alone.” You don’t know why. It could be “Please leave me alone because I am trying to memorize Beowulf.” It could be “Please leave me alone because you are a scary, scary man with breath like a water buffalo.” It could be “Please leave me alone because I am planning my assassination of a major geopolitical figure and I will have to kill you if you are able to recognize me and blow my cover.”

On the other hand, if she is turned towards you, making eye contact, and she responds in a friendly and talkative manner when you speak to her, you are getting a green light. You can continue the conversation until you start getting signals to back off.

The fourth point: If you fail to respect what women say, you label yourself a problem.

There’s a man with whom I went out on a single date—afternoon coffee, for one hour by the clock—on July 25th. In the two days after the date, he sent me about fifteen e-mails, scolding me for non-responsiveness. I e-mailed him back, saying, “Look, this is a disproportionate response to a single date. You are making me uncomfortable. Do not contact me again.” It is now October 7th. Does he still e-mail?

Yeah. He does. About every two weeks.

This man scores higher on the threat level scale than Man with the Cockroach Tattoos. (Who, after all, is guilty of nothing more than terrifying bad taste.) You see, Mr. E-mail has made it clear that he ignores what I say when he wants something from me. Now, I don’t know if he is an actual rapist, and I sincerely hope he’s not. But he is certainly Schrödinger’s Rapist, and this particular Schrödinger’s Rapist has a probability ratio greater than one in sixty. Because a man who ignores a woman’s NO in a non-sexual setting is more likely to ignore NO in a sexual setting, as well.

So if you speak to a woman who is otherwise occupied, you’re sending a subtle message. It is that your desire to interact trumps her right to be left alone. If you pursue a conversation when she’s tried to cut it off, you send a message. It is that your desire to speak trumps her right to be left alone. And each of those messages indicates that you believe your desires are a legitimate reason to override her rights.

For women, who are watching you very closely to determine how much of a threat you are, this is an important piece of data.

an excerpt from Phaedra Starling’s “Schrödinger’s Rapist: or a guy’s guide to approaching strange women without being maced” (via lostgrrrls)

HOLY FUCK THE TRUTH.

Can every one of my male followers read this? And please, before you get defensive (“I would never rape anyone!”) keep in mind, women being afraid of Shrodinger’s Rapists (oh my god i still can’t get over the encompassing brilliance of this phrase) is a conditioned, learned response from being immersed in rape culture and the evolution of sexism and sexual violence in our society from the day we’re born. And unfortunately, it’s very difficult to unlearn without the efforts of all genders to dismantle it. Which is where you come in.

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It’s also just rude and disrespectful to patently ignore what someone has told you regarding their personal space, body, and time. Get a clue.

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I will always reblog this. Always.

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So if you speak to a woman who is otherwise occupied, you’re sending a subtle message. It is that your desire to interact trumps her right to be left alone.

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This is brilliant!

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Advertising’s image of women. Watch this and get your mind blown. 

This needs to stop.

I am not female but I really don’t think that matters. EVERYONE needs to see this. 

Truth

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If you asked me how life was right now, I’d say pretty good. I’ve got it pretty good. But ask me again in give minutes, five hours or five days and I just don’t know. The real problem, is deciding whether that is good or bad…or both.

‘nuff said.

Saw Toy Story 3 today in 3D of course. My 3D philosophy is if they make the effort to shoot (or animate…or special effect however the hell they make animated movies 3D) in 3D then it should be damn well seen in 3D, cough up the extra bucks and make...

Saw Toy Story 3 today in 3D of course. My 3D philosophy is if they make the effort to shoot (or animate…or special effect however the hell they make animated movies 3D) in 3D then it should be damn well seen in 3D, cough up the extra bucks and make like a kid again wondering in the magic of something popping out at you (Up!), being immersed deeply in a fantasy world (Avatar) or just gored out of your mind like never before (My Bloody Valentine…amazing! Not the storyline, the gore factor). So I 3D-glass’d it up, brought my mum and my overactive inner child and settled in for some serious regression.

I gotta tell ya I was not disappointed, that was the most adorable movie I have ever seen since Up!, which was so freaking adorable it made E.T. look like a damn area 57 project. Like the Toy Story predecessors it ran the usual gambit of introductory scenes, uphill battles for toy survival, betrayal, friendship, Buzz being switched to Spanish mode (which freakin’ rocked!) and some inter-toy-species crushes-Jessie the yee-hawing cowgirl I’m looking at you!

It was entertaining, funny (did I mention the tango dancing Spanish Buzz?) heartfelt and tear-jerky to the very end. It was a really nice way to wrap up the franchise and say goodbye to the toys that lassoed and blasted their way into our lives 15 years ago.

Mr.Potato Head, Piggy Bank and T.Rex had all the best adult-lines as usual but Jessie and Bullseye still remain my standout favourites, you gotta love the crazy, kick-ass cowgirl, voiced by the awesome Joan Cusack, and her adorable and loyal horse pal.

Go see it and please you inner (or blatantly outer) kid.

F x x

What am I doing?

Soooo, I’ve no idea what I’m doing on here yet or how this all works but I’m sure I’ll either figure it out soon or completely forget that I actually have an account in a few weeks….but I digress.

Something to keep you amused in the meantime:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PSEYXWmEse8

100 Greatest Movie insults of all time. My fave? For nostalgic reasons and cos it’s one of my fave movies of all time, Dante from Clerks, ‘Try not to suck any dick on the way to the parking lot’, or cos he’s so insane and fucking suave as all get up Mr.Blonde from Reservoir Dogs, 'Are you gunna bark all day, little doggie? Or are you gunna bite?’. But honorable mentions must go to all Steve Martin rants, Chevy Chase as the Griswald that started it all and the loveable late John Candy who has been making me laugh since before I could walk.

F x x